Monday, April 18, 2016

Tongxin-Post 3 Termination and Gratitude

When I terminated the client whom was the first long-term client of mine, I wanted to express my sincerest gratitude to her from the bottom of my heart.
She did not know that at the beginning how much I was struggling in scheduling and how nervous I was to see my clients. She came on time every time and said “thank you” to me at the end of every session. I guess she believed in my professionalism even before my colleagues began to believe me.
The reciprocal trust between me and her was the thing that I held firmly in hand and kept me going at the very beginning of my counselling practice. I was very vulnerable as a counsellor with inadequate self-confidence. It was this client that let me climb up to the stage where I re-assured that I can be fully qualified as a counsellor.
She and I worked together going through maybe the darkest period of her life. The counselling commitment took her to realize that the world is not all bad, and there are always hopes; it took me to know more about myself as a counsellor.
When we terminated, our shared journey also ended. However, I will remember this journey, where we relied on each other and fought against odds in her life-----she became a much more mature herself, and I became a much more mature counsellor.

She is her own heroine. I wish her a good life.   

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